The Fifth Question for Passover

IMG_8508We all know the "Four Questions" of Passover.

But did you know there is a "Fifth" question? Here it comes - What do you remember most from your earliest Passover seders? I asked a few members of my family and their responses were: My husband - "Everybody had a turn reading from the Haggadah - in whatever language they wanted." My youngest daughter - "Who could sing the entire "Who Knows One" in one breath" My son said - "Uncle Malcolm and all his jokes" My oldest daughter said - "Being with all the cousins" and what I remember most was running around with my cousins ( I have 27) to find the Afikomen. Continue reading

Jewish Wedding Rings

THE JEWISH WEDDING BOX We all know that the wedding ring is the material symbol of a legal Jewish wedding. It is a critical part of the wedding vow. IMG_8265 We may never fully understand the level of abject poverty under which many Jewish families lived throughout history. To alleviate the need for a groom to purchase an expensive ring for his bride, an interesting custom arose, whereby an entire village would buy one expensive ring. Historically, these highly ornate rings were ceremonial, used only at the couple’s wedding, and thought to be owned by the community or passed down in families. Continue reading

Passing On Our Jewish Heirlooms

shabbatshalom_bowls "At first blush, most of us are probably inclined to liken religious ritual to an heirloom, something handed down to us from our parents and grandparents. We’re enjoined, sometimes explicitly and sometimes more tacitly, to take care of rituals, to ensure that they don’t vanish. When seen from that perspective, ours is the responsibility of stewards, curators and historians."  Continue reading

MY GRANDMOTHER’S HOUSE

What do I remember most from my grandmother’s house?

Simple answer: smells and things. The smells were from rendering chicken fat and heirloomspotato knishes, matzoh balls and apple strudel (with dough so thin you could see through it.) The material things were: a pair of brass Shabbat candlesticks (which now proudly grace our candle lighting table (can you pick them out from the picture of my Shabbat candle lighting table?), a stone mortar and pestle (now long gone) and a goose feathered quilt given to my parents on their wedding day over 65 years ago. Continue reading